Showing posts with label Frazzled. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Frazzled. Show all posts

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Victoriously Frazzled - Update Week 3-4

I shared about Week 2 so lets see what highlights I have for week 3 and 4. 


"Whatever you want others to do for you, do also the same for them " Matthew 7:12


This was week 3's memory verse, and growing up we hear this all the time from our Mom and Dad's but here it is in GOD's word!!! This week talked about how to control our tongue and respond God's way and not our own way.

"A hot-tempered [woman] stirs up dissension, but a patient [woman] calms a quarrel. " Proverbs 15:18.

The idea of an accountability partner came up, more on that later...
We discussed how God shows his glory through us.

We should be humbled, in awe, and thankful, but not surprised! 
"We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as through God were making His appeal through us" (2 Corinthians 5:20) We are "Jesus in the flesh" to a world who does not know Him.  We can encourage our brothers and sisters who do know Him with His love and His constant presence in our lives.  Page 45.


This week showed me that I need to work harder at showing others how God works in my life.

Week 4's Memory verse was "Come with me by your(self) to a quiet place and get some rest" Mark 6:31.  Week 4 was about experiencing God's practical power.  Do we hear God's voice when he is talking to us or are we even listening? 

We go through times of feeling distant from God for many reasons. One of the most powerful lessons I have learned through these trying times is that I must never base my relationships with Jesus solely on my feelings.  If I do, my feelings will tell me He has betrayed me and I know that will NEVER happen!   Page 56

Wow, how many times have I done that? To many to count. This week reminded me that God is there for us in the BIG and the small, we just have to open our hearts to hear him.

She also reminds us that God wants to hear us.  I don't mean a silent prayer between you and God.  Not that, silent prayer is bad or anything, but God wants to HEAR us vocalize for him. Reading his words out loud, singing songs of praise out loud to him (joyful noise) , praying out loud to him.


"If you confess with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your MOUTH that you confess and are saved." Romans 10:9-10 NIV


Making scripture more personal is another thing she recommends.  Example "I can do everything through Him who gives me strength" (Philippians 4:13 NIV) to "I can do everything through You who gives me strength" (Philippians 4:13.)

Another example is "He is my loving God and my fortress, my stronghold and my deliverer, my shield in whom I take refuge." (Psalm 144:2 NIV) TO You are My loving God, My fortress, My stronghold, and My deliverer, My shield in whom I take refuge. (Psalm 144:2)

The last thing week 4 talks about is Morning (anytime) Quiet time routine.  I am still working on this.  And you might be hearing more about this coming up in the next few weeks.

Until then, I encourage you to get this study the Victoriously Frazzled Bible Study by Cindy Wood and start it today!!!



Lil' Momma

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Victoriously Frazzled by Cindi Wood

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What a great bible study this is turning out to be.  If you get a chance check out Cindi Woods website.
We are on week 2 in our study and I just wanted to share a little from this week.

This weeks theme is Control Freaks.

The themes for each day during this week are...
Day 1 Controlling Your Circumstances
Day 2 Trusting God's Control
Day 3 Controlling the People in Your Life
Day 4 Positive Control
Day 5 Others Who Control

Each day was full of great ways to help us all remember God is in Control.  

"Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." Ephesians 4:2


I think everyone in our class found the advise she gave in dealing with others who are "CoNTroL FrEaKS"

  1. Be "Jesus calm," Controllers tend to generate a lot of tension.  Keep your distance (physically and emotionally) so that you can tay focused when you speak to them.  Your calm body language and speech will help them stay calm, too.
  2. Choose your words. The normal tendency is to speak rapidly and loudly when you speak to those who are trying to get the upper hand. Deliberately slow your rate of speech and carefully choose your words. This will have a calming effect on you and the other person.
  3. Practice patience.  Controllers need to be heard. Let them vent.  Show them with your facial expressions that you care about them.  Offer a few words to let them know you've heard what they've said. Remain calm until they've finished.
  4. Be kind. Pulling this piece of artillery from your arsenal will have unbelievable results. While the person is building those defenses of anger and lashing out, offer nothing but kindness. There's nothing like kindness to jam up a full-fledged verbal attack.
This is a great bible study and I recommend it to anyone to do alone or in a small group!

Remember :  

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take." Proverbs 3:5-6

The Control Freaks list was taken from the book Victoriously Frazzled by Cindi Wood page 37.

Lil' Momma
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